Through self-exploration, Nora had learned what worked sexually in her body. She combined that knowledge with two other key components for good sex – communication and a sense that she deserved good sex.
Read More“Part of my own awakening has been realizing that a lot of women whom I am close to, whom I love, are missing out on something. Why is that? Why haven’t we done a better job of putting women’s pleasure front and center? Why is the focus on our own individual pleasure still missing?”
Read MoreThis remarkable woman has moved past childhood sexual abuse, rape, an abusive marriage, and heroin addiction to find love, comfort and even satisfying sex.
Read More“Gender dysphoria is like a horror movie. Like this thing is attached to you, and you can’t get rid of it. It feels like it’s destroying your life, and you have to do something about it.”
Read More“It made me see the intensity of life, that if they could choose to do that, I could choose to be whatever I wanted to be.”
Read MoreMenopause challenged not just her enjoyment of sex but her sense of self. “I thought I’d be someone who’d have great sex into my 80’s.”
Read MoreWhen I ask her about masturbation and orgasm she responds, “That didn’t happen for me. There wasn’t anyone talking about that with me.” She can’t even recall if she had orgasms in her first marriage. “If I did, it was uneventful. I just really can’t remember,” she sighs. “I didn’t know that sex wasn’t just about the guy.”
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